By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Stuff It or Talk About It?
May 22, 2015 9:36 am
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I finished reading Hurricane Sisters, and the husband came home begging for forgiveness. The couple spent the whole night talking, and then agreed never to talk... More
Gratitude, Repairing and Avoiding Affairs
May 20, 2015 9:42 am
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I'm reading a novel called Hurricane Sisters, and the very successful husband has been caught having an affair, and is knocked back by the stupidity of his actions... More
The Grass is Greener Where You Water It
May 10, 2015 7:50 am
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I saw this quote at the Y, and thought it is so fitting for relationships.
It is up to us to water the grass within our relationship. Here are several suggestions:
• Giving... More
Marriage Interview 7: He Works 24 Hours a Day
May 4, 2015 9:35 am
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Lui and Leon met at work in 2004 and began dating a month later. They married three months after that, and have been married for 10 years.
Lui says that Leon... More
Marriage Interview 6: Blind to Clutter
Apr 28, 2015 7:50 am
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Mandy and Sam met in college in 1988 and began dating a year later. They waited 15 years before getting married, and now have been married for 13 years.
One of... More