By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Sep 23, 2014 9:26 am
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Do you ever have a day where you just want to stay in bed? Tired, a little cranky. It seems it would probably be better off for those around me to be spared my presence.... More
Sep 18, 2014 10:25 am
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My husband is having shoulder surgery as I write. Came home to eat and back to the hospital.
I'll post again soon.... More
What’s Your Love Language?
Sep 16, 2014 12:24 pm
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If you've been reading Couple's Net, you've seen my references to Gary Chapman's concept (and books) of the 5 Love Languages.
I would recommend that you start... More
Repeating and “You” Sentences
Sep 12, 2014 1:03 pm
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Repeating is a sign that we don't feel heard, or we feel misunderstood; that our mate is brushing aside our words and the meanings behind them. So we repeat (turn... More
Ray Rice and Domestic Violence
Sep 9, 2014 1:03 pm
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There has been a great outrage and shock for people to see the video of Ray Rice slugging his then fiancé, now wife. We heard about it, but actually seeing it has... More